Today I wound up saying on Twitter:
I got asked about this on Twitter and since my views do not in any way fit into 140 characters, it's time for an entry.
I can split my views up into three broad categories: pragmatic, technical, and broadly cultural and social. The pragmatic reasons are the simplest ones and boil down to that Linux is the dominant open source Unix. People develop software for Linux first and everything else second, if at all. This is extremely visible for an X desktop (the X server and all modern desktops are developed and available first on Linux) but extends far beyond that; Go, for example, was first available on Linux and later ported to FreeBSD. Frankly I like having a wide selection of software that works without hassles and often comes pre-packaged, and generally not having to worry if something will run on my OS if it runs on Unix at all. FreeBSD may be more pure and minimal here but as I've put it before, I'm not a Unix purist. In short, running FreeBSD in general usage generally means taking on a certain amount of extra pain and doing without a certain amount of things.
On the technical side I feel that Linux and Linux distributions
have made genuinely better choices in many areas, although I'm
somewhat hampered by a lack of deep exposure to FreeBSD. For example,
I would argue that modern .deb and RPM Linux package management is
almost certainly significantly more advanced than FreeBSD ports.
As another one, I happen to think that systemd is the best Unix
init system currently available
with a lot of things it really gets right,
although it is not perfect. There are also a horde of packaging
/etc/cron.d that matter to system administrators
because they make our lives easier.
(And yes, FreeBSD has sometimes made better technical choices than Linux. I just think that there have been fewer of them.)
On the social and cultural side, well, I cannot put it nicely so I will put it bluntly: I have wound up feeling that FreeBSD is part of the conservative Unix axis that worships at the altar of UCB BSD, System V, and V7. This is not required by its niche as the non-Linux Unix but that situation certainly doesn't hurt; a non-Linux Unix is naturally attractive to people who don't like Linux's reinvention, ahistoricality, and brash cultural attitudes. I am not fond of this conservatism because I strongly believe that Unix needs to grow and change and that this necessarily requires experimentation, a willingness to have failed experiments, and above all a willingness to change.
This is a somewhat complex thing because I don't object to a Unix
being slow moving. There is certainly a useful ecological niche for
a cautious Unix that lets other people play pioneer and then adopts
the ideas that have proven to be good ones (and Linux's willingness
to adopt new things creates churn; just ask all of the people who
ported their init scripts to Upstart and will now be re-porting
them to systemd). If I was confident that FreeBSD was just waiting
to adopt the good bits, that would be one thing. But as an outsider
I haven't been left with that feeling; instead my brushing contacts
have left me with more the view that FreeBSD has an aspect of
dogmatic, 'this is how UCB BSD does it' conservatism to it. Part
of this is based on FreeBSD still not adopting good ideas that are
by now solidly proven (such as, well,
/etc/cron.d as one small
This is also the area where my cultural bad blood with FreeBSD comes into play. Among other more direct things, I'm probably somewhat biased towards seeing FreeBSD as more conservative than it actually is and I likely don't give FreeBSD the benefit of the doubt when it does something (or doesn't do something) that I think of as hidebound.
None of this makes FreeBSD a bad Unix. Let me say it plainly: FreeBSD is a perfectly acceptable Unix in general. It is just not a Unix that I feel any particular enthusiasm for and thus not something I'm inclined to use without a compelling reason. My default Unix today is Linux.
(It would take a compelling reason to move me to FreeBSD instead of merely somewhere where FreeBSD is a bit better because of the costs of inevitable differences.)